Love In The Big City (2024) TIFF Review: Not a typical love story

Based on the coming-of-age novel by author Sang Young Park, this movie circling around the concept of friendship, surprised me. Director E.oni‘s candid approach to the complexity of queer relationships, abortion and the strength of independent women, is intoxicatingly portrayed in this film. ‘Love in the Big City Review‘ premiered at the Toronto International Film Festival under the ‘Special Presentations’ segment.

As the title suggests, there is love in the big city, but of the friendship kind. Jae-hee (Kim Go-eun) and Heung-soo (Steve Sanghyun Noh) strike up a friendship in the most unlikely way. Heung-soo is secretly gay, while Jae-hee is a fearless, individuality-embracing young woman. Jae-hee is publicly honest and herself, thus becoming fodder to incessant gossip. Heung-soo hides his personality and inclinations and is determined to be a closeted member of the LGBTQ+ community, for fear of being misjudged, even more than he already is.

These two aimless souls end up becoming roommates, in an “us against the world” defiance style, after years of being accustomed to being misinterpreted. Together, they navigate dating in Seoul, whilst partying, drinking, crying, arguing, eating and sleeping. All while experiencing homophobia, slut-shaming, literal stalkers, physical and sexual assault, and numerous other issues in no particular order. The two form a kind of camaraderie and protect each other against all odds, which is honestly heart-warming to watch.

Jae-hee dates several guys, but most of them are toxic relationships. Heung-soo finds a guy, who he falls in love with. But since he wants to remain private and not be open about his sexuality, issues arise.

This movie is a journey— a journey of love, friendship, youth and growing up. Spanning close to a decade, the film begins with the final scene, which makes it a full circle. Nevertheless, this film pivots into the classic K-drama style early on, evident with the crisp disagreements, over-exasperating dramatics, firm pat-backs and montage cinematography. Thankfully, the stellar performance of the lead actors and the unusual storyline compensate for the usual K-drama elements.

Actress Kim Go-eun always seems to put on her A-game in every role she selects to work on. This one is no exception. There is definitely a reason why the newly pixie-cut-haired unnie, wins every award she is nominated for, the last being the Best Actress Baeksang Award for her performance in ‘Exhuma’. She is loveable as Jae-hee, her flaws and all.

Actor Steve Noh’s performance was truly remarkable. He was capable of portraying emotions subtly as a closeted gay best friend, in the best way possible.

I wouldn’t think twice about watching this movie, it’s fun. But remember, this is not a love story!